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T i p s    f o r    T e x a s   T e c h   P a r e n t s – T o – B e

 

By Carissa Noel Nichols, President of TECH Couples & Families, 2003

 

It is highly probable that you are very busy right now doing the following things:  daydreaming, worrying, planning, and researching options.  As if it’s not enough that you are consumed with handling the emotional, mental, and especially physical aspects of pregnancy . . . well, you’ve got to deal with other things, too.  For example, you may be wondering how you can continue your studies at Texas Tech throughout your pregnancy; you may be wondering how to connect with local resources to successfully meet your needs; or, you may be wondering what financial assistance is available.   TECH Couples & Families is excited to offer you some solutions during this important and precious period of your life.

 I have some great news to deliver you!  You are not alone.   There are other Texas Tech students who have successfully mastered the delicate balance between student-hood and parenthood; I am especially referring to the experience of pregnancy.  As unlikely as it seems to you right now, there are other spouses and parents in your midst on the Texas Tech campus.  Although it is difficult to spot us, we are here.   We are those “other students” who have made it work - and we know you can do it too. 

 

Allow me to repeat that:  we know you can do it . . . and we want to help out.

     
The goal of this article is to encourage and empower you as you embark on this sometimes delightful, sometimes frustrating journey.  The most amazing experience of your life is only a number of months away . . . you are about to welcome a precious new life into this world. 

We at TECH Couples & Families are especially committed to you.  If you don’t know about us yet, check us out.  We are a registered student organization with active members, a purpose, planned activities, and political objectives.  We are not religiously affiliated; anyone is welcome here. 

     

On behalf of the students and faculty at Texas Tech, we congratulate you and wish you the best!

     



 

There are a multitude of resources available to you.  Breathe a sigh of relief because below is a list of helpful programs, services, and people.  This is merely a starting point.  We are sure you will discover more opportunities in the process; on the other hand, some of these options may not be available to you.  Regardless, we urge you to investigate these possibilities.  As you go through the list, please offer us feedback so we can edit this document.  If phone numbers or websites change, for example, we need to know.  You can contact the author of this document at carissanichols@hotmail.com; we would greatly appreciate constructive criticism and feedback.

     

Okay, Texas Tech moms and dads-to-be . . . let’s get started!

     
Most of the solution opportunities listed below focus on health concerns and financial assistance.
 

q       Student Health Services (SHS).  Located on-campus in Thompson Hall, the Student Health Center features an impressive Women’s Clinic.   The staff is familiar with assisting pregnant women; they have offered great advice to pregnant couples in the past.  The check-up is free; actually, your student fees paid for it in advance!  Go redeem that on-campus health care.  You will find them very helpful, we believe!  Know in advance, any physician will recommend that you get an official blood test to confirm your pregnancy.  Drink lots of water to pump up those veins before your appointment.  After the (free, free, free) test results come in, you can have them transferred, as proof of pregnancy, to any doctor, program, or service you utilize in the future.  This is the most important step because you have to have proof of pregnancy to apply for the numerous programs/services listed below.  After this initial visit, all they can offer you at SHS is excellent advice and support (available ANY time during and after your pregnancy).  They are great at answering questions; however, they are not permitted to practice physical health care on pregnant women after initial lab work is completed. 

q       Medicaid.  After you have lab work proving your pregnancy, you can apply for Medicaid.  This step may not apply to you if you already have insurance or a means in which to pay for the thousands of dollars in which you are about to incur in medical bills.  (Sorry to remind you!)  What is Medicaid?  According to the 2003 booklet entitled User’s Guide: Texas Medicaid Program, written by the Texas Health and Human Services Commission, “Medicaid is a program provided by the state that offers medical assistance to the elderly and families with low incomes and resources and certain people with disabilities.  Medicaid is different from Medicare. (I inserted the boldface).”  

How do you apply for Medicaid?  It is a chronological, multiple step process explained below.  Looking at this list, please resist the temptation to feel overwhelmed.  Simply take one step at a time.  It may take you up to a week to complete each of these steps to complete Medicaid.  With great confidence, we believe it will be well worth your time to go through these initial efforts.  The financial assistance you can yield from this service is absolutely priceless.  1-888-834-7406.

 1.      The Texas Department of Human Services (TDHS) determines your eligibility for Medicaid.  Call days in advance to make an appointment.  We estimate that the appointment will take you 1-2 hours depending on what time of day you go.  (Avoid lunchtime.)

You may pick from 3 locations in Lubbock:   

1716 Parkway Drive                744-7632

2131 Clovis Road                  744-9800

5806  34th Street                   797-8870

The eligibility scale changes each year; thus, I have not published that scale.  What I can do is advise you about how to fill out the paperwork.  Bring copies of the following items: 

A.     Your mortgage or rent contract (as proof of rent)
B.    
Official documents from the Texas Tech Financial Aid Office (proving financial aid)
C.    
Your most recent bank statement(s) (proof of financial need)

Obviously, pick an advantageous time to make this office visit.  If you just deposited your financial aid money, explain that your account is higher than normal because you just received your financial aid/grants/scholarships and that money has to last you for months (as depicted by your mortgage/rent contract).  Be very specific, thorough, and offer documentation as you are talking with the social worker.  She will make copies of everything you show her.  He/she is there to help you qualify, not to judge you.   

They put a special RUSH on cases that involve pregnancy because timing is so critical and your needs are urgent.  I estimate that you will know within a two weeks whether or not you qualify.  

If you do qualify, we understand that every single penny of your health care during your pregnancy is covered, including the following: the pregnancy exams, the birth, and the postpartum period.  It is a godsend.  In addition, your baby will qualify for a year after his/her birth and you will pay nothing for baby’s health care.  As your baby ages beyond 1 year old, you can reapply for Medicaid for continuing health care coverage.  As a disclaimer, we do not guarantee that this program will be exactly the same for you as we have described here.  This is merely our personal understanding of the existing system.  Get updated information from the caseworkers to ensure you understand all benefits and responsibilities.

          2.      If you qualify with TDHS, the Texas Department of Health (TDH) will oversee your case. 

If you are not contacted by your TDHS or TDH caseworker within two weeks, call them and give them your Case Number.  When TDH contacts you, you may be asked to select “a program.”  This is much like selecting an insurance policy.  The benefits of each are virtually identical; however, the physicians available on each program vary.  If you have selected an OB/GYN, ask them what Medicaid program they prefer to file with.  This will ensure the easiest paperwork processing available.  Believe me, you don’t want to skip this step. 

3.      (This step varies depending on whether you were granted “Traditional Medicaid” or “STAR Medicaid.”)  After you have selected a Medicaid program, you will deal almost exclusively with that specific provider.  They are so similar to any non-public insurance provider that you may forget the difference!  The customer service is excellent, historically.  They are extremely respectful, helpful, and accessible.   

q       Get started seeing an OB/GYN.  How we wish we could recommend a specific physician to you!  Alas, we cannot.  It just isn’t fair.  You may get a recommendation from the women’s clinic at Student Health Services (Thompson Hall); most likely, their hands may also be tied concerning recommendations.  It is just a courtesy that medics extend to each other (to avoid favoritism).  It is possible that this policy has changed . . . there may be partnerships we are unaware of.  We recommend that you ask around, do some research, and pick one as soon as possible.  We also recommend that you make sure that the OB/GYN you select is on your insurance/Medicaid plan.  If you have to change later, you will find it is much more difficult.  Most doctors won’t see pregnant women after a certain date because it is too great a liability.  (Unbelievable, huh?)  As long as you’ve been seeing someone in the meanwhile, you should be okay.  We implore you, do this early.  If nothing else, make an appointment early.  They book weeks in advance.  In this ball game, you can make an art out of timing appointments with insurance/Medicaid coverage.  

q       It is very important that you establish a good relationship with your OB/GYN.  You will want them to be your new best friend.  Why?  Because they can do a lot for you.  Once that good relationship is established (even if on the first visit), explain to your OB/GYN that you are a Texas Tech student intending to continue classes.  (I recommend bringing proof of enrollment such as your class schedule.)  Explain that you are represented by TECH Couples & Families, a registered student organization that is committed to ensuring on-campus representation and assistance.  (That way they see you have done your research.)  Explain (or remind them of) the parking conditions at Texas Tech, pointing out that they are unreasonable, insufficient, and hazardous accommodations for a pregnant woman.  Request a temporary handicap parking permit.  They may or may not give this to you.  If they do not give this to you, contact TECH Couples & Families and we will provide you with a request letter to present to your OB/GYN.  This letter may help you get handicap parking, but we cannot guarantee it.  It is at the doctor’s discretion.  If this is a critical need (depending on where your classes are and the weather) there are further measures we can execute.  We are currently working on acquiring on-campus maternity parking passes for expectant mothers from the Texas Tech Traffic and Parking Department; however, these are unavailable as of the Fall of 2003.  If this is an issue you are especially concerned about, contact TECH Couples & Families to get involved on a committee that is working to achieve this temporary on-campus parking privilege. 

q       Select a hospital for the delivery.  It really is valuable to decide this early because there are so many wonderful classes to take and people to meet.  Plus, you’ll want to see the maternity rooms and equipment well in advance so you can mentally prepare for the experience.  It will help you to ease into the “birthing zone.”  (just kidding)  There are 2 excellent hospitals from which to choose in Lubbock.  I recommend that you ask your OB/GYN he or she has a preference or a partnership established with either of these hospitals.   That could be a critical factor in your decision, obviously.  Here are the 2 hospitals and their respective websites: 

o       Texas Tech University Medical Center (UMC), Grand Beginnings http://www.teamumc.org/default.asp?xml=grandbeginnings/default.xml&bhcp=1 

o       Covenant Health System, First Impressions
http://www.covenanthealth.org/Services/womens.htm

q       Contact and network with four very important on-campus resources at Texas Tech University. 

o       The first one, obviously, is TECH Couples & Families.  http://www.orgs.ttu.edu/techcouplesandfamilies

o       The second one is the Texas Tech Ombudsman, Kathryn Quilliam, who can be reached at 742-4791.  Her campus-wide advertisements read, “A safe place for students to bring concerns and find solutions.”  It’s true – she is a problem-solving wiz.  http://www.depts.ttu.edu/ombudsman/

o       The third one is the free Texas Tech Counseling Center at 742-3674. http://www.depts.ttu.edu/scc/

o       The fourth one is Texas Tech’s free Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic at 742-3074.
http://www.hs.ttu.edu/mft/

q       Look into the following local programs: 

1.      Women, Infants, and Children (WIC).   1-800-942-3678 (statewide number).
Their Lubbock location is 1301 50th Street, Suite 10       Local Phone:  747-0006
Check out their website:   http://www.tdh.state.tx.us/wichd/
Quoted from their homepage on September 12, 2003:

WIC is a nutrition program that helps pregnant women, new mothers, and young children eat well, learn about nutrition, and stay healthy.  Nutrition education and counseling, nutritious

foods, and assistance with access to health care are provided to low-income women, infants,

  and children through the Special Supplemental Nutrition Program, popularly known as WIC.

 

 Who is eligible and who can apply?

·               Pregnant women

·               Women who are breastfeeding a baby under one year of age

·               Women who have had a baby in the past six months

·               Parents, step-parents, guardians, and foster parents of infants and children under five can apply for their children

If you have a job or if you have private health insurance, you can still apply for WIC .

You do not have to be married to apply for WIC .

What about fathers?  Fathers of children under age five are encouraged to enroll their children in the WIC program. Just like any other parent or guardian, fathers can bring their children to appointments, attend nutrition education classes, and cash food vouchers for their children. Active participation by fathers is a great help in keeping WIC children healthy.
 

Are services free?   Yes! All WIC services are free to those who are eligible.

 

Who provides the services?

·                     The Texas Department of Health runs the Texas WIC Program and provides funds to agencies across the state who run local WIC offices. All kinds of agencies offer WIC services such as local health departments, county and city agencies, migrant health centers, community action agencies, and hospitals.

·                     Many local offices are open in the evenings and on Saturdays so that clients do not have to miss work.

·                     There are over 400 full-time permanent WIC offices and more than 300 other part-time satellite sites so finding a WIC clinic close to you shouldn't be a problem.

WIC Eligibility Requirements:  

Meet the income guidelines. Households with incomes at or below 185% of the federal poverty income level are eligible. WIC determines income based on gross income. WIC counts all of the members of a household, related or non-related. WIC counts an unborn baby as a household member.

Income Eligibility Guidelines

Number of household members

Monthly household income

Yearly household income

1*

$0 up to $1,385

$0 up to $16,613

2

$0 up to $1,869

$0 up to $22,422

3

$0 up to $2,353

$0 up to $28,231

4

$0 up to $2,837

$0 up to $34,040

5

$0 up to $3,321

$0 up to $39,849

6

$0 up to $3,805

$0 up to $45,658

7

$0 up to $4,289

$0 up to $51,467

8

$0 up to $4,773

$0 up to $57,276

For households larger than 7 members, please call 1-800-942-3678 toll free.

·         Be at nutritional risk. WIC clients receive an initial health and diet screening at a WIC clinic to determine nutritional risk. WIC uses two main categories of nutritional risk: 1) medically-based risks such as history of poor pregnancy outcome, underweight status, or iron deficiency anemia, and 2) diet-based risks such as a poor eating habits which can lead to poor nutritional and health status. Clients will be counseled at WIC about these risks and the outcome influenced by nutrition education and nutritious foods provided by WIC.

·         Live in Texas. WIC clients usually receive services in the county where they live. U.S. citizenship is not a requirement for eligibility.

·         Clients must apply in person except in certain limited cases. “

Again, this information is from the WIC website; TECH Couples & Families cannot and does not guarantee that this information is up-to-date or true.

2.   Storks Nest.   2602 Avenue Q    762-6730

    The following information was retrieved from two personal websites from women in other states.  They acknowledged that they got these statements from other sources.  Forgive the third-hand quotation, but it is accurate:

    “The Stork's Nest is an incentive-based education program, designed to promote healthy behavior among women during pregnancy. Women will be encouraged to participate in prenatal care, educational classes, and well-baby appointments following the birth of their child.

Women who participate in the program will receive "points" for each healthy step that they complete. Healthy lifestyle choices such as breast feeding, quitting smoking and substance abuse, partner involvement with the pregnancy and child rearing, and other parenting skills will be rewarded. The women can then "spend" their points in the Stork's Nest shop on diapers, clothes, car safety seats and other essential baby care items.

    Women who participate can also use an on-site resource library and speak with a certified health care educator for further information and referrals to community resources.”

Also . . .

“The purpose of Stork’s Nest is to provide infants with a healthier start in life. Income and the need for encouragement to seek prenatal care determine participants in this program. The program not only encourages participants to receive regular prenatal checkups but also presents educational seminars on issues of importance to expectant mothers. As an incentive for continuation with the program, expectant mothers are provided with maternity clothes, baby furniture, diapers and other essential items at little or no cost.”

3.    Daddy Boot Camp. Visit this amazing website!   http://www.newdads.com 

Offered to dads-to-be whose significant other is registered to deliver at UMC (University Medical Center), Daddy Boot Camp is priceless.  Call 743-1060, extension 664.  Basically, you spend a Saturday morning and afternoon with a group of other dads-to-be along with some new dads.  You get an opportunity to “guy talk” in a confidential group setting about your newfound fatherhood.  You have the opportunity to practice holding newborns, watch the diapering process, and maybe even bottle feed a little one . . . all to prepare you for what is to come by giving you a glimpse into the father role.  I’ve heard lots of great things about this boot camp . . . it’s the gentlest one you’ll ever go through.

Well, folks, that’s all for now.  This is a great place to start.
Take care and be in touch.  Go Tech!

 


 
 
The above article in no way constitutes professional advice.  This article is a friendly contribution from the author to the students and faculty at Texas Tech University.  The advice and opinions in this document do not necessarily represent the advice and opinions of Texas Tech University.  The author will not be held personally responsible for the outcomes, experiences, or implications that arise as a result of reading this article.
 

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